I have recently been asked if the romance dies after having and raising 4 kids and the answer is in short “no it just evolves.”

So to elaborate before kids romance I can imagine for a lot of people is nights out getting all dressed up and going out to dinner and getting some real one on one time but after kids my romance is us stealing 5 minutes of us time to just be alone for a snuggle or managing to sit outside together while the kids are all off playing. Its walking down the street hand in hand or driving and automatically putting your hand on your partners leg. It’s moments like these that I treasure now more so than the expensive nights out and major alone time.

It’s moments when I witness my husband with the kids where all his focus is on them and that he is looking at them like they are his absolute world that make me remember why I fell in live with him in the first place and it’s the moments where he still talks about our future as if we are only just at the beginning that make my heart flutter.

So I got to admit there are changes like you can’t just be alone whenever you want or as many put it doing the deed whenever you please but there is more passion in the moments you do get now than there was before and the thought of steal some alone time is always more exciting 🙂

So yes the romance does change but not in a bad way it evolves into something much better and to me that’s what love is meant to be. You see so many relationships break down or partners cheat because people say the romance is gone or they don’t feel the fire there anymore but relationship are meant to take work and a whole lot of effort. You will have your ups and down and I’m sure you will fight but as long as at the end of the day you still stand by each other in my book that’s a win.

Talk again soon CC <3